Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Can anyone help me? I'm having a problem interacting with my friends?

I know how hard it can be to try to fit in, you're not doing anything wrong at all. I can tell this takes up a lot of your mental space right now, but you need to look at this situation from another perspective. People in high school are growing up, there is still a lot of immaturity and friends can change over the years. You just need to place value on yourself, and not allow them to treat you like that. If you be your own person, and show you don't need just anyone around you all the time, the right people will come to you automatically. During breaks, go hang out with someone who actually interacts with you properly, or even engage yourself in a book. And if they ask you where you've been just be cool about it and say you've been hanging out with someone else or you wanted to finish your book. I know it might be hard to do at first, but if you are strong and independent, and surround yourself with people who really love and care about you like your family and relatives, people will realise that they have to prove their sincerity when they want to be your friend. And if the people you used to hang out with say anything just be blunt and honest, and say calmly look I don't have anything against you but we seriously don't fit in together, you have other friends you don't need me. Maybe they will change then, maybe they won't. Sometimes you can only find out who your real friends are once high school is over, but don't ever let yourself be treated like crap, because you seem like a sweet and kind person so you are worth so much more.

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