Is this attractive. This question is for both men and woman but I'm a woman?

My grandparents taught me to only tell a person the things you don't care about. How I truly feel about a man is hiding deep within myself. I can say a lot of things over the internet to throw someone off. If you truly want to know what a woman or man like in a person its best to ask him or her face to face. What I may find attractive in a man? Is between me,myself,and I. My grandparents didn't raise no fool. A woman should know when and where to speak at all times. If I speak a lot that's only to throw you off balance. On days I speak less that's when he should be skeptical......